
Monmouth County Domestic Violence Attorney
Also Serving Clients in Middlesex County & Across New Jersey
Domestic violence is a serious accusation, but that doesn’t mean everyone accused is guilty. People facing these charges can be ostracized by friends and family. They need to know that their lawyer stands with them and believes in their right to a fair trial. That’s the kind of representation people in Monmouth County, Middlesex County, and the surrounding areas can find at Law Offices of Carlos Diaz-Cobo. We have over 18 years of experience, and we leverage all of that knowledge to help our clients protect their records, reputation, and freedom.
What Constitutes Domestic Violence Under New Jersey Law?
Domestic violence in New Jersey is abusive behavior inflicted by one household or family member upon another. The person being accused must have a specific relationship with the alleged victim, such as being a spouse, former spouse, cohabitant, or romantic partner. Domestic violence encompasses a wide range of acts designed to control, intimidate, or harm someone.
Physical abuse is among the most commonly prosecuted forms of domestic violence and includes assault, battery, or pushing. Furthermore, even if there is no direct physical contact, threats, harassment, or intimidating behavior—such as constant surveillance or verbal abuse—can qualify as domestic violence. Acts like stalking and coercive actions that cause one to fear for personal safety are also categorized under this definition.
Additionally, financial abuse is another less obvious but equally valid form of domestic violence. Withholding access to money, stealing income, or sabotaging someone’s ability to earn can also be considered abusive behavior under certain circumstances.
In New Jersey, domestic violence decisions are guided by the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act. This legislation outlines the acts that qualify as domestic violence, the protections available for victims, and the penalties that an accused individual may face. It distinguishes between different types of violent acts and provides a framework for prosecution and defense.
Criminal Charges vs. Restraining Orders
Domestic violence cases in New Jersey typically involve two separate proceedings:
- Criminal Charges: The state may file criminal charges for the underlying offense (e.g., assault, harassment).
- Civil Restraining Orders: A separate hearing is held to determine whether a Final Restraining Order (FRO) should be issued.
Even if the criminal charges are dismissed or resolved in your favor, the civil court can still impose an FRO. This order can have long-term consequences, including a permanent bar on firearm ownership, entry into a statewide domestic violence registry, and ongoing restrictions on child custody and visitation.
Legal guidance is crucial in mounting a two-pronged defense strategy for both the criminal and civil aspects of the case.
Call (848) 207-2709 or contact us online today to set up a free consultation with our domestic violence attorney in Monmouth County.

When facing serious criminal charges, you need a relentless, trial-ready defense. As a Certified Criminal Trial Lawyer and award-winning attorney, Carlos Diaz-Cobo has the experience, reputation, and courtroom skill to fight for the best outcome in your case.

What are the Immediate Consequences of a Domestic Violence Arrest?
Being arrested on a domestic violence charge in Monmouth County can result in a cascade of consequences. These include:
- Immediate removal from the home
- Temporary Restraining Orders (TROs)
- Loss of access to children
- Prohibition from possessing firearms
- Potential jail time while awaiting court hearings
The issuance of a TRO can severely impact one’s daily life. These orders can prohibit any form of contact with the alleged victim and may even force you to surrender your home or vehicle.
A Monmouth County domestic violence lawyer can help challenge these immediate restrictions and provide guidance through the legal maze that follows.
What are the Penalties for Domestic Violence-Related Crimes?
The penalties for domestic violence-related offenses vary depending on the severity of the underlying criminal charge.
Possible legal consequences include:
- Fines
- Probation
- Jail or prison time
- Community service
- Mandatory counseling or anger management
In addition to these, a criminal conviction can permanently damage a person’s reputation and limit employment or housing opportunities. Working with a Monmouth County domestic violence attorney gives the accused the best chance of avoiding or reducing these penalties.

Why Choose Law Offices of Carlos Diaz-Cobo?
Elite Credentials. Proven Results. Relentless Advocacy.
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We provide top-tier legal representation at a fair price, ensuring strong, strategic defense without unnecessary financial strain.
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Less than 2% of NJ attorneys hold this certification—Mr. Diaz-Cobo’s expertise and dedication set him apart in criminal defense.
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Recognized as the 2024 Criminal Trial Lawyer of the Year, Mr. Diaz-Cobo has also been named a Top 10 Criminal Defense Lawyer nationwide and a Top 100 Criminal Defense Attorney in New Jersey.
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Mr. Diaz-Cobo’s legal insights and cases have been showcased on ABC, CNN, Fox, NBC, Asbury Park Press, Star Ledger, the New York Times and The Wall Street Journal, earning him a trusted reputation in criminal defense.
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Our firm is dedicated to providing every client with professional, responsive, and courteous treatment.
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Schedule a consultation to discuss your case and explore your options with no obligation.
How to Defend Against Domestic Violence Charges?
Those charged with domestic violence can expect to face legal challenges on two fronts. It starts with a restraining order. The state of New Jersey issues restraining orders in two stages. The first is a TRO (Temporary Restraining Order), which can be issued immediately upon charges being filed. While defendants cannot stop the TRO, they have 10 days to prepare for a hearing on a Final Restraining Order (FRO), where we can present your defense. A FRO is permanent, although it is subject to modification or elimination in the future.
Criminal charges are also possible. The specific charges will depend on the circumstances, including the act being alleged and the defendant's prior record. It can be charged as either disorderly conduct or an indictable offense.
Several common defenses can be employed, depending on the specific circumstances of the case. They include the following:
Self-Defense
When someone acts to protect themselves from imminent physical harm, their actions may be legally justified. For example, if a defendant struck their partner to stop an attack against themselves or someone else, we can argue that the force was necessary and proportional to the threat. Self-defense claims often rely heavily on witness testimony and physical evidence, like medical reports or injuries.
Lack of Evidence
Another effective strategy is challenging the sufficiency of the prosecution’s evidence. Domestic violence cases often rely on statements from the alleged victim, which may lack corroboration from physical evidence or witnesses. The Law Offices of Carlos Diaz-Cobo can thoroughly investigate inconsistencies or missing details in the prosecutor’s case, seeking to argue that the evidence is insufficient to warrant a conviction.
Disputes Over Intent
Another possible defense is to argue that the defendant’s actions were accidental or misinterpreted rather than malicious or purposeful. By demonstrating the absence of harmful intent, the defense can work to reduce or dismiss charges.
Our office will review police reports, medical records, and witness accounts to build a compelling case. The goal is to protect the accused’s rights and future by either achieving the dismissal of all charges, negotiating reduced charges, or securing an acquittal in court.
What to Do When Facing False Allegations of Domestic Violence?
False allegations of domestic violence occur more often than many people realize, often leading to devastating consequences for the accused. These claims can arise in the midst of emotionally charged situations, such as contentious divorces, child custody disputes, or the breakdown of a romantic relationship. The motivations behind false accusations can vary—some may be an attempt to gain leverage in family court, retaliate against a former partner, or secure control over shared assets or children.
The consequences of a false accusation are severe. A defendant may face immediate legal restrictions, including losing access to their home or children through restraining orders. That’s to say nothing of the damage to their personal reputation and career.
Our legal team at Law Offices of Carlos Diaz-Cobo is committed to uncovering the truth in these scenarios. We employ advanced investigative techniques to gather essential evidence, such as the history of the relationship and communications between parties. By meticulously analyzing available evidence, including digital communications, social media interactions, and previous legal actions, we can identify the inconsistencies in the allegations and pursue justice for our clients.
Contact A Defense Lawyer Who Gets Results
Attorney Carlos Diaz-Cobo has a strong record of success. He’s been honored by his peers at the National Academy of Criminal Defense Attorneys, who named him a Top Ten Criminal Defense Lawyer Nationwide. Here in New Jersey, the State Supreme Court recognizes him as a Certified Criminal Trial Lawyer—a distinction bestowed upon less than 2% of attorneys. When you or a person you love is facing domestic violence charges, and a Restraining Order hearing, Attorney Diaz-Cobo and his dedicated team are who you want in your corner.
Call (848) 207-2709 or reach out online today. We serve both Spanish-speaking and English-speaking defendants in Monmouth County, Middlesex County, and throughout the state of New Jersey.

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Carlos Diaz Cobo is one of the most experienced and talented criminal defense attorneys in the state. Highly recommend for anyone in trouble with the law. His track record speaks for itself.
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“Best lawyer I have ever hired! Others tried to scare me into horrible scenarios. Mr. Diaz-Cobo was so reasonably priced from the start and reassured me that it would all be fine. And it was... he got the case dismissed completely!”A.D.
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A.L.
Excellent criminal defense office. The lawyer fights hard for clients. The secretary (Karen) is very efficient, a very good collaborator and super friendly. I recommend this office 100%.
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F.D.
Carlos and his team were both wonderful to work with and extremely good at what they do. Thank you for driving a great outcome!
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Carlos has helped improve my life in multiple ways. I would never have been able to achieve where I’m at today without him. I now have a successful life and future.C.D.
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L.T.
Excellent criminal lawyer, when everyone did not give me hope about my case and advised me to plead guilty, he with his experience and professionalism took me to trial and we won. Recommended 100 percent.
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“He has helped me out in ways you can’t even imagine. My freedom and my happiness is all credit to Carlos Diaz Cobo and his office. He gave me a second chance at life.”J.M.
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“Carlos worked diligently & professionally the entire length of my case. His confidence in the courtroom provided me with a sense of calmness when most needed.”M.R.